I deleted my other blog and just transferred my blog entries into this one, haha.  Actually the blog I wrote during SP

I rarely read fashion magazines anymore because it promotes this image that woman need to dress or act sexually to get a guy's attention. Im not trying to be high and mighty here.  Its just that reading/looking through these magazines really discourages and even distorts the mindset of a girl trying to be modest.  Unfortunately, Ive seen Christian women and even myself read through these magazines and conform to the world's definition of beauty. Its already bad enough that we have a hard time accepting our own self-image  , then you add the worlds unrealistic expectations.
  Yesterday, I caved in and started browsing through this makeup magazine.    I came upon this article about Dania Ramirez.  

What is your attitude about Beauty?
Beauty is owning who you are. It starts from the inside out...really accepting yourself, is to me, what makes you beautiful

I really like her answer.  Looking through the world's eyes,  beauty is unobtainable.  There are different definitions and perceptions of beauty.   I know this one place in Africa,  the more overweight a woman is, the more beautiful she is.   Pale skin is considered beautiful in Asia. Beauty is defined by how many peircings you have.   So many definitions!  No one can be beautiful in this world.

We need to accept ourselves, knowing that God fearfully and wonderfully made us.  It sounds really cliche, right? But this is biblical truth and sometimes these truths are hard to accept and believe   Most of us haven't accepted the fact that God finds us beautiful  no matter what. In the end,  I rather look beautiful to Him than to the world.

Rachel Dahl is the creator of A La Modest.   She is a woman that creates modest clothing in an age where immodesty rules and seen has the "ideal" quality.   Im really inspired by her.  She respects herself and her husband...a rare quality in today's fashion world. She has inspired me to respect myself and "save" myself for my future husband; not only through chasity but also how I treat my body.  Here is an insert from her blog:

http://alamodest.com/


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"As I like to say, “Keep immodesty within the marriage bed!” Married women can get all the fun they want with lingerie as clothes for their husband’s eyes only! Ironically, I only really took the importance of modest fashion to heart when I got married. I’ve never really been happier with the way I carried myself since I started pushing away my insecurities by not wearing clothes that attracted the wrong attention. I realized that I gave away part of myself to other men through the way I dressed, and essentially stole from my husband what he alone should’ve cherished.

To the single women out there, it is best to start now. I understand how hard it is to even attract men in this day and age, where sexually infused fashion is rampant, but it will pay off one day to be with someone who cares deeply about who you are, enough to protect you from himself. When you incite a man to lust, you do not win him. Lust takes over, and it is greedy. Like any type of greed, it wants more. Do not expect that luring a man with lust will keep him faithful to you. Modesty is not really the end-all to lust, but it certainly helps to keep minds pure.

... Let’s not be greedy and steal their minds away. Lust really eats up men, and contrary to the momentary pleasures they might get from it, they ultimately do not like its effects. Doing your part says that you love all men and want to help them see the beauty in you through purity and not lust. Purity goes a long way. It’s not really synonymous with chastity. You can be pure and be sexually active in the context of marriage. Most guys deep down want a girl who will give them everything without inhibitions but only to them. If you give yourself to other men by inciting lust in their minds through the way that you dress, then you are not really saving yourself fully for your future husband. The Bible says that if a man looks at or thinks about another woman lustfully, then he is already committing adultery. In your own small way, by dressing modestly, you really are helping to tame lustful thoughts. It shows that you really care, and in turn, most “husband-material” guys will appreciate this a lot.

Dressing “down” gave me many heartaches. It attracted so many of the wrong type of guys. I’m glad that God was sovereign and landed me with an amazing stud who encouraged me to be modest-fashionably forward (even before we got married)."

Things are just a major blur.... I feel like Im holding on by just a thread. My emotions are going hay-wire and I feel lost.

This morning, in the midst of my worrying and complaint. I soon realize that my pride has gotten the best of me.  Ive been relying on myself...I trusted my own knowledge, my own decisions to lead MY life. I thought, " God dosen't know what I want,  He will mess everything up."

My pride has also caused me to stop running the race(1 Corinthians 9:24).  Im stagnant. stationary.  still. useless.

My sinful desires became my god.   Instead of running towards the true God,  I ran to these idols.  They could not quench my thirst.  My hunger left unsatisfied.

Proverbs 5:22
The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast.

My chasing my sinful desires....Im chasing pavements.  It leads me no where.

By God's grace, He has revealed my heart.  By his blood, im cleansed.  By Him, im set free.  Through Him, im able to run again

GOOD NEWS: Im being productive
Im getting work done

BAD NEWS: I'm slowly losing energy....haha

These are actually the times I hate being an extrovert. My need to be around people is like...essential >.<  Its only been less than a week and im slowly "dying", hahaha


im not overexageratting either!


This is how Im feeling:

-Lonely
- Depressed
- Weak/tired

Sometimes people think I'm clingy or Im afraid to be alone.  Nah man, thats not the point! All i know is...People...my antidrug =0>

::sigh::


Shelly called me up at noon and apparently it was depressing and sad listening to me.  Its embarssing when people can hear it  >.<


Anywho, I can't really do anything about it.  Everyone is busy.  
So my question is..... How will I survive??

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MY LOVE LANGUAGE RESULTS:


1. Quality Time
2. Physical Touch
3. Words of Affirmation
4. Receiving Gifts
5. Acts of Service


I will definately agree with these results.  I love spending time with someone, especially with someone I like.   Typically, if they don't make time for me, I don't think they care enough about me...which im trying to change hahaa

This is most likely my last free summer of my life  >.<  So, I decided to keep my summer relatively free and enjoy it.




Here are my goals:





1.   Delighting in God
I know, I should be doing this already. Every day, all day, 24/7. Sadly, Ive come to see that I treat God like a vending machine.  Everytime Im hungry or thirsty, i push a few buttons, get my food, and walk away.  That shouldn't be the case, I should be delighting in His Word, loving Him, Worshipping Him for his vast glory and magnificence. Instead, I give Him half of my heart, half of my attention. Basically, my left-overs.    God should have all of my praise


2.  Books to Read:
All these books were recommended to me in some form or another. Ive been meaning to read them for a while.  Here is my chance!

- Knowing God  by  J.I. Packer
- Changes That Heal by  Henry Cloud
- Christless Christianity by Michael Horton
- Pilgrims Progress  by  John Bunyan



3.  Cont to Learn the Drums
Why?  A few weeks ago,  I was at a jam session in NCC and played around on the drums.  I was able to do a simple beat, so ever since then ive been practicing at my church, YSKPC.  Our drum player is going to Korea in August. Some church members suggested I take over for him, thats IF i get better haha

4.    Hang out with my fellow Sisters

- QT together
- Tennis and running
- Working out and bible studies with Kayley

I hope to stick with my goals.  HAve a GREAT summer

<3 Dani